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Becoming Santa Al: When a Calling Comes for Us
“Vocation does not come from willfulness. It comes from listening.”— Parker J. Palmer For many years, my father did not like Santa. Nor December. Not even the Christmas season. He was a bit of a Grinch. But not because his heart was two sizes too small. It was something different. He loved Jesus with a steady, serious devotion. He was a minister. He believed Christmas mattered. And because it mattered so much, he felt protective of it. Anything that felt like a distraction
Dec 25, 20255 min read


Beware: The Intelligence Story We Get Wrong — and the Future We Can Lose If We Believe It
"It’s not our abilities that limit us — it’s the ceilings we agree to ." Dr. Ellen Langer (born March, 1947, researcher, author, Harvard professor) "The idea that the brain is fixed in adulthood is not only wrong - it is dangerous." Dr. Norman Doidge, The Brain That Changes Itself "Your brain is changing every moment - and you are the architect." Richard Davidson (neuroscientist, University of Wisconsin - Madison) This blog is different from my usual. I'm going to go on a ra
Oct 23, 20256 min read


"Survival of the Kindest": Why It is So Dang Hard; A Cartoon to Help, Some Seeds to Plant, and a Rule to Follow (For Jimmy and Me and Maybe You)
Those communities which included the greatest number of the most sympathetic members, would flourish best . – Charles Darwin "Ol farmr"...
Aug 27, 20254 min read


How to Make Yourself Happy Naturally: Listen to Your Three Emotional Systems and Take a Daily DOSE
"Happiness is not something ready-made. It comes from your own actions." – Dalai Lama Last night John and I were trying to figure out why...
Jul 17, 20256 min read


How Practicing “the Virtues” Heals Us
The good life is found in the small practice of universal virtues that align the body, mind, and spirit. After talking to several people...
Jun 7, 20256 min read


Where is the Path You are Following Taking You? Ways of Life That Lead to Flourishing
The various religions are like different roads converging on the same point. What difference does it make if we follow different routes...
Jun 5, 20256 min read


Sleeping With Bread and Discerning Your Little "p" purpose
And so when we're doing things that light us up, we're being purposeful...Dr. Jordan Grumet On Sundays, I take six or so kids, including...
Mar 11, 20257 min read


Ailing? Write Yourself A Social Prescription
Instead of asking "what's the matter with you?" ask patients "what matters to you?" Dr. Sam Everington, Founding Social Prescribing...
Jan 21, 20257 min read


Could We, Should We, Make America "Good" Again? To Rot or To Ripen
"Roxburgh's goal was to develop students with good character and moral courage, young men that would be 'acceptable at a dance and...
Jan 8, 20258 min read


Message from a Vet - Be a Hero: Stop the Fight and Start the Quest
There is what I would call the hero journey, the night sea journey, the hero quest, where the individual is going to bring forth in his...
Nov 11, 20248 min read


Mysterious Stuff: Theology of Health, Strange Stories, Unusual Factors, Cancer as a Turning Point and Living Your Values
The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious . It is the source of all true art and all science. He to whom this emotion...
Sep 30, 20248 min read


Thoughts on “Bad Things”: A Hodgepodge for our Pockets?
"Adversity, in whatever form, can teach us valuable lessons and make us stronger if we have the courage to face it." Elizabeth Smart,...
Aug 2, 20246 min read


Good Ways to Celebrate Our Independence
"You have to love a nation that celebrates its independence every July 4, not with a parade of guns, tanks, and soldiers who file by the...
Jul 3, 20244 min read


Relationships, Flourishing, and Seeing With Our Autobiography
We don’t see things as they are, we see them as we are. Anaïs Nin About forty years ago I had a quick conversation with a friend. He...
Jun 22, 20247 min read


How To Get Lucky: the Research and Practice
When it comes to luck, make your own. – Bruce Springsteen I love the research on luck. It started for me when I first read The Luck...
Mar 14, 20244 min read


Who Starts It? How? Why?
Let us temper our criticism with kindness. None of us comes fully equipped. Carl Sagan Two of our granddaughters recently spent the...
Dec 9, 20236 min read
Picking Pleasure Or Purpose
“…I arise in the morning torn between a desire to improve the world and a desire to enjoy the world. This makes it hard to plan the day.”...
Jul 24, 20223 min read
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