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Who Can Control the Ring? The Effects of Power and a ChatGPT Grail Blessing"
"The way of the Ring to my heart is by pity, pity for weakness and the desire of strength to do good." — Boromir, The Lord of the Rings...
Sep 276 min read


Gratitude for the Rose AND the Thorn
Some people are always grumbling because roses have thorns; I am thankful that thorns have roses – Alphonse Karr, French novelist. A few...
Sep 194 min read


The Gift Of Presence, The Perils of Advice
"Never give advice unless asked. The wise won't need it, the fool won't heed it." German proverb When someone gives me advice after I...
Aug 317 min read


"Ding, Ding, Ding. Recalculating…" You Are Still on the Best Route. Plus a Few Compassion, Accountability, and High Performance Hacks You Can Use Anytime
“If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.” – The Dalai Lama It’s easy to...
Aug 146 min read


“Who’s In There? Seeing Our Humanity and Connecting in Two Minutes
We are here to awaken from our illusion of separateness. — Thich Nhat Hanh, Vietnamese Buddhist monk, prolific author, peace activist,...
Aug 64 min read


Big, “Bad” Emotions! No More "Sucking It Up, Buttercup": A Better Way - Insights from a Kid’s Story, Rumi, and Internal Family Systems
“We often find that the harder we try to get rid of emotions and thoughts, the stronger they become….” ― Richard C. Schwartz, No Bad...
Jun 177 min read


Suffering: A Valuable Ingredient for the Good Life?
“Suddenly some force struck him in the chest and side, making it still harder to breathe, and he fell through the hole and there at the...
Jun 127 min read


How Practicing “the Virtues” Heals Us
The good life is found in the small practice of universal virtues that align the body, mind, and spirit. After talking to several people...
Jun 76 min read


What "Thunderbolts" Teaches Us About Trauma, Depression, and the Healing Power of Connection and Common Humanity
Owning our story can be hard but not nearly as difficult as spending our lives running from it. Embracing our vulnerabilities is risky...
May 59 min read


Porch Storms and Birthday Calls: A Lenten Reflection on a Rich Life and a Real Father
“Daddy," I whispered, feeling my own breath hitch in my throat. "I love you." Just when I was sure he was asleep, the one corner of his...
Apr 104 min read


A "What If Scenario" and My Plan for America's Happiness, Health, and Well-Being
Yes, I saw and read some of the political news yesterday. I am politically independent - still I have plenty of thoughts about what path...
Mar 58 min read


No Enemies Within: The Story of Three Wolves (Or Minnions)
“Imbalanced systems, whether internal or external, will tend to polarize.” ― Richard C. Schwartz, Internal Family Systems Therapy “Parts...
Dec 12, 20249 min read


Tennessee Wisdom: Beware of Snootiness
Contempt is the sulfuric acid of love . Dr. John Gottman, relationship expert “How did this happen? I just don’t understand.” That’s...
Nov 15, 20248 min read


Kinship: Bridging All the Divides, Tips and Inspiration from My Homie, G-Dog
There is no 'them' and 'us.' There is only us. Father Gregory Boyle When a system is far from equilibrium small islands of coherence in...
Jul 24, 202430 min read


Emotional Hijacking and Triggernometry
Between stimulus and response there's a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and...
Jul 18, 20246 min read


Father's Day - Forgiveness and Not Drinking The Poison
"Daddy," I whispered, feeling my own breath hitch in my throat, "I love you." Just when I was sure he was asleep, the one corner of his...
Jun 11, 20245 min read


Suffering, Empathy, and The Parable of The Mustard Seed
For each event, use mindfulness, a sense of common humanity, and kindness to process the event in a self-compassionate way. Dr. Kristin...
May 29, 20246 min read


Vulnerability, FEAR, and Sharing Our Common Humanity
“The practice of spirituality is a way of looking at a world where you're not alone.” — Rick Rubin, author of The Creative Act: A Way of...
May 14, 20245 min read


Belonging To Each Other
If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other. Mother Teresa An acquaintance’s obituary was published...
May 10, 20244 min read


The Hero's Journey For Real, Take One
“Mythology is to relate found truth to the living of a life.” ― Joseph Campbell, The Hero's Journey: Joseph Campbell on His Life & Work...
Mar 8, 20248 min read
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