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Becoming Real
“Real isn’t how you are made,” the Skin Horse tells the rabbit. “It’s a thing that happens to you.” — The Velveteen Rabbit , Margery Williams About forty-five years ago, it happened to me for the first time. A tear. An inkling. I was on the edge of a bed with two little boys, reading The Velveteen Rabbit . I hadn’t taken a shower for days. My clothes were proof of survival, with crumbs and smudges and ketchup wiped off with a wet paper towel. As I read about a toy rabbit lon
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What If We Could Escape Our Same Old Loops? Wake Up to a New Us and a New Day Tomorrow?
“When Chekhov saw the long winter, he saw a winter bleak and dark and bereft of hope.” — Phil Connors in Groundhog Day Every February 2 nd , Groundhog Day, I think not of the weather prediction, but of the movie, Groundhog Day and it’s enduring message. Of course, I get a big kick our of Bill Murray who is brilliant in the movie. Groundhog Day as a movie has a cult following which includes a past minister who watches the movie with her husband and friends every year. What m
Feb 26 min read


Who Can Control the Ring? The Effects of Power and a ChatGPT Grail Blessing"
"The way of the Ring to my heart is by pity, pity for weakness and the desire of strength to do good." — Boromir, The Lord of the Rings...
Sep 27, 20256 min read


Don’t Let The Bastards Get You Down
“Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise.” – Victor Hugo Today is September 11 th . It’s a day of remembrance. I'm mad....
Sep 11, 20258 min read


"Survival of the Kindest": Why It is So Dang Hard; A Cartoon to Help, Some Seeds to Plant, and a Rule to Follow (For Jimmy and Me and Maybe You)
Those communities which included the greatest number of the most sympathetic members, would flourish best . – Charles Darwin "Ol farmr"...
Aug 27, 20254 min read


Ripening: The Missing Chapter in the Story of a Good Life?
Aging is an opportunity to step into the fullness of who we are . Oprah Winfrey While attending a cocktail party of sorts, my energy...
Jun 24, 20259 min read


Stop Groundhog Day?
When Chekhov saw the long winter, he saw a winter bleak and dark and bereft of hope. Yet we know that winter is just another step in the...
Feb 3, 20258 min read


Could We, Should We, Make America "Good" Again? To Rot or To Ripen
"Roxburgh's goal was to develop students with good character and moral courage, young men that would be 'acceptable at a dance and...
Jan 8, 20258 min read


Message from a Vet - Be a Hero: Stop the Fight and Start the Quest
There is what I would call the hero journey, the night sea journey, the hero quest, where the individual is going to bring forth in his...
Nov 11, 20248 min read


Don't Waste Your Suffering; Wind the Wound Around
"The wound is the place where the light enters you." Rumi, poet Some years ago, my brother, Steve, shot himself. Steve never recovered...
Oct 15, 20247 min read


What Is Theory of Mind? Why Should We And How Can We Develop It?
"You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view... Until you climb inside of his skin and walk...
Oct 12, 20247 min read


On the Brink of Everything: Hurricanes, Aging, Discovery, and Infinite Life
“Good Teacher, what shall I do so that I may inherit eternal life?” Mark 10:17, New Testament This morning and yesterday I’ve been...
Oct 8, 20246 min read


Revenge OR Turn the Other Cheek - What Does That Mean? Maybe Not What We Think
You have heard that it was said, “An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.” Do not resist an evildoer. But if anyone strikes on on the...
Aug 7, 20247 min read


"Born Bad": Can We Adopt A More Helpful, Accurate, and Life-Giving Story?
"I think there's a natural goodness built into human beings. You know when you've stepped across the line into evil, and it's your life's...
Jul 22, 20247 min read


Cultivating Our Unshakable Core, Connecting With Our "Inner Yoda" (and don't bet against humanity)
I thank whatever gods may be For my unconquerable soul. Invictus, William Ernest Henley Yesterday my brain felt like a ping pong ball was...
Jun 19, 20248 min read


Self-Transcendence: Flow, Spirituality, Inner Peace, and Doing the Best We Can With What We've Got
“The mystique of rock climbing is climbing; you get to the top of a rock glad it’s over but really wish it would go on forever. The...
May 7, 20248 min read


Better Angels? Of Our Nature? Really?
We are not enemies, but friends. We must not be enemies. Though passion may have strained it must not break our bonds of affection…when...
Feb 3, 20248 min read


How About Soul Care?
There is one spectacle grander than the sea, that is the sky; there is one spectacle grander than the sky, that is the interior of the...
Jan 11, 20245 min read


Is It Alive? And Other Soul Stuff
In the world we everywhere find clear signs of an order in accordance with a determinate purpose, carried out with great wisdom —Immanuel...
Nov 21, 20234 min read


How About A Day Of Honoring With Gratitude And Joy All Those Up, Down, and All Around Who Guide Us?
“A man only learns in two ways, one by reading, and the other by association with smarter people.” Will Rogers November 1st ...
Nov 1, 20237 min read
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