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Beware! Evil Is Something That Ordinary People Can Easily Do
“Evil is something that ordinary people do, not something that only special people do.” — Roy Baumeister I want to begin with a story that has stayed with me for years because it unsettles a myth we like to believe about ourselves as people. A dear friend—an exceedingly good man and a trusted leader—once told me that he had been a participant in the obedience experiments conducted by Stanley Milgram. You’ve likely heard of these studies but hearing them through the voice of s
Jan 307 min read


Figuring Out Where You Stand During Turbulent Times: Nash and King Can Still Help Us
“Let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred.” — Martin Luther King Jr. The Interfaith Justice Coalition is inviting me and others in the area to attend a candlelight vigil tonight for Alex Pretti. I am mulling over where I stand during this turbulent time. What wisdom do I draw on? Two stories, two incidents, from the sixties help. They were incidents that happened in my memory of the Civil Rights era that seem to rise
Jan 269 min read


Scary Stuff: Choosing Conformity or Courage...Pulling Away from the Pack and Dancing to Your Own Drummer
“The greatest prison people live in is the fear of what other people think.” —David Icke Early every Sunday morning, John and one of our...
Oct 7, 20257 min read


What Do You Really Need? And How to Be Happy, Stop Wrecking Your Relationships, and Causing General Chaos
“Everything We Do Is an Attempt to Meet a Need.” Marshall Rosenberg I’m going to share a story. Like the previous blog, this isn’t the...
Jul 11, 20254 min read


Being Prudent - A Human Problem: Two Ways to Help Yourself
The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing. - Socrates Uplifting new research strongly indicates that human beings, both as...
Apr 1, 20254 min read


How Wise is Anne Lamott? What AI Thinks
The saddest aspect of life right now is that science gathers knowledge faster than society gathers wisdom. Isaac Asimov, popular science...
Jan 23, 20248 min read


No More Bad Tricks: Mindfulness and Questioning Everything...Including Aging
The more we realize that most of our views of ourselves, of others, and of presumed limits regarding our talents, our health, and our...
Jan 18, 20245 min read


Can You See The Water You Swim In?
I don't know who discovered water, but I'm pretty sure it wasn't a fish. Marshall McLuhan, writer My parents were concerned about...
Jan 15, 20246 min read


Are We Naturally Good or Bad?
"I think there's a natural goodness built into human beings. You know when you've stepped across the line into evil, and it's your life's...
Nov 28, 20235 min read


Everything Everywhere All At Once
You Are Not Unlovable. There Is Always Something To Love. Even In A Stupid, Stupid Universe Where We Have Hot Dogs For Fingers, We Get...
Mar 14, 20235 min read
Messiness and Being Messed With
"There's more here, sir, than meets the eye." John Galsworthy's book, The Man of Property, when the inspector looks over the dead body...
Sep 9, 20224 min read
Compassion Gone Wrong, A Lesson
“Nowhere is wisdom more necessary than in the guidance of charitable impulses. Meaning well is only half our duty; Thinking right is the...
Jun 7, 20225 min read
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