“The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated.”— William James A seventeen-year-old boy covered in swastika tattoos sat in prison wondering what had become of his life. Frank Meeink had grown up in violence. His stepfather beat him. His home was chaotic. By the time he was a young teenager, he had absorbed one overwhelming message: You don't matter. Then someone came along with a different message. "You do matter. You're one of us." The "us" happened