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To be Known and Loved; Lessons from Sonja and Sophia and Sharratt
“It is better to be hated for what you are than loved for what you are not.” Andre Gide, French writer and Nobel Prize winner who explored authenticity, freedom, and the dangers of living according to others’ expectations Though the Gide’s words land starkly for me, they point toward a tender truth: much of human flourishing depends on being known. That thought sits at the heart of psychologist Sonja Lyubomirsky’s beautiful work, especially in her recent book with Harry Reis,
May 37 min read


Peace, Inner Work, and We're All In This Together
While working on nuclear weapons I became acquainted on intimate terms with my own self-righteousness - the captivating, invigorating...
May 10, 20238 min read
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