“Love is the will to extend oneself for the purpose of nurturing one's own or another's spiritual growth.” — M. Scott Peck A long-time acquaintance once shared her story and her daughter’s. His daughter struggled with alcohol from a young age. Like many people battling addiction, she could be funny, intelligent, loving, and difficult all at the same time. When she wanted alcohol and her parents refused to buy it for her, arguments erupted. She would yell. She would accuse.