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Who Can Control the Ring? The Effects of Power and a ChatGPT Grail Blessing"
"The way of the Ring to my heart is by pity, pity for weakness and the desire of strength to do good." — Boromir, The Lord of the Rings...
Sep 276 min read


Response to Terror? Not Fight, Not Flight, Not Freeze...
It is only the farmer who faithfully plants seeds in the Spring, who reaps a harvest in the Autumn. B. C. Forbes, Scottish-American...
Aug 225 min read


"Ding, Ding, Ding. Recalculating…" You Are Still on the Best Route. Plus a Few Compassion, Accountability, and High Performance Hacks You Can Use Anytime
“If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.” – The Dalai Lama It’s easy to...
Aug 146 min read


What Do You Really Need? And How to Be Happy, Stop Wrecking Your Relationships, and Causing General Chaos
“Everything We Do Is an Attempt to Meet a Need.” Marshall Rosenberg I’m going to share a story. Like the previous blog, this isn’t the...
Jul 114 min read


Reclaiming Ourselves as “We the People”
How, exactly, do we resolve dilemmas that tempt us to choose either this or that and instead hold the tension long enough to let a “third...
Jul 44 min read


Belated Juneteenth, King, and the Call to Be Brave
Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage . Anais Nin Today I'm still reflecting on Juneteenth. Where I always go when I get...
Jun 206 min read


Porch Storms and Birthday Calls: A Lenten Reflection on a Rich Life and a Real Father
“Daddy," I whispered, feeling my own breath hitch in my throat. "I love you." Just when I was sure he was asleep, the one corner of his...
Apr 104 min read


Hear! Hear! A Compassion Pep Talk
R eceiving kindness, gentleness, warmth and compassion tells the brain that the world is safe and other people are helpful rather than...
Mar 198 min read


A "What If Scenario" and My Plan for America's Happiness, Health, and Well-Being
Yes, I saw and read some of the political news yesterday. I am politically independent - still I have plenty of thoughts about what path...
Mar 58 min read


Don't Waste Your Suffering; Wind the Wound Around
"The wound is the place where the light enters you." Rumi, poet Some years ago, my brother, Steve, shot himself. Steve never recovered...
Oct 15, 20247 min read


Relationships Win, The Golden Rule Still Rules, and Trusting In Our Goodness
These are not new values or ideals. As long as there has been strife and hunger and exploitation and cruelty, there have been...
Jul 26, 20247 min read


Kinship: Bridging All the Divides, Tips and Inspiration from My Homie, G-Dog
There is no 'them' and 'us.' There is only us. Father Gregory Boyle When a system is far from equilibrium small islands of coherence in...
Jul 24, 202430 min read


Emotional Hijacking and Triggernometry
Between stimulus and response there's a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and...
Jul 18, 20246 min read


Blessed Are the Curious For They Shall Have Adventures
We are not enemies, but friends. We must not be enemies...Abraham Lincoln. And if a house is divided against itself, that house will not...
Jun 4, 20246 min read


Suffering, Empathy, and The Parable of The Mustard Seed
For each event, use mindfulness, a sense of common humanity, and kindness to process the event in a self-compassionate way. Dr. Kristin...
May 29, 20246 min read


Belonging To Each Other
If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other. Mother Teresa An acquaintance’s obituary was published...
May 10, 20244 min read


What Might College Protestors, Middle Schoolers, Addicts, Risk-Takers, Evil Actors, and Isaac Newton Have in Common?
"All of humanity's problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone." Blaise Pascal, French inventor and physicist “I’m...
May 2, 20246 min read


Earth Day and Cosmic Concerns
"You see the Earth with a sort of global consciousness, a global love. It's a phenomenon that fuels you emotionally, spiritually, and...
Apr 18, 20247 min read


On the Hero's Journey Everything Changes
“The fundamental human experience is that of compassion." ― Joseph Campbell, The Hero's Journey: Joseph Campbell on His Life & Work...
Mar 5, 20247 min read


Love Our Enemies: Getting Back On The Horse
If you fall off the horse, get back on (shouted by coaches and murmured by grandparents to keep us trying after failure...when they can't...
Feb 13, 20246 min read
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